A lot of girls find me attractive but my self esteem has always been low and when I go out to social places it seems all the attractive women are waiting for me to come talk to them or expecting me to approach them but I'm far off from approaching girls from a confidence stand point, even though I've done all I could to enhance my appearance conditionally I'm still stuck in neutral and now I just feel like I'm something look at because that's pretty much the only thing girls will do
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I've met plenty of guys like you to know that an oversized ego doesn't always go hand in hand with great looks.
As for who makes the first move, I like to be able to give somebody a green light before they do much of anything. Depending on the person and the setting, it might be a "come and get me" look or I might go get him myself. Quite often, I'll shoot a look in his direction, give it a moment, and then go introduce myself. But I typically hate it when people come up to me and I haven't been giving them any attention.0