I have known unattractive men, then I got to know them better. Their personalities then changed their appearance to me. So someone I thought was very unattractive turned into someone I loved very much, we then went on to have a very handsome little boy. We are not together anymore, but are still friends. Then again, I fell for someone who was not as attractive as most women thought he was, but his personality drew me in. It's not what's on the outside, it's with in :)
Well I think guys are 'visual' while girls go by 'feeling'. For me I do like to look at cute guys but they are not the ones I want as a partner. If the guy makes me feel that he loves me and will alwyz be there for me, he is attractive. Attractiveness does not always means good looking. a Guy with good looks and bad personality is unattractive.