That part is clear.
Then I don't understand why guys constantly stare at me. Like in class, some guys stare a lot and act all weird when I catch them looking. It happens everywhere. I don't know why.
Sometimes they smile at me but I get nervous so I just look down. Some guys have actually come up to me and tried to talk me. Some have been pervy. Some were just friendly.
Am I that gross that guys stare so much?
I doubt they're interested because of my weight. And I won't stare at them either because I don't want them to think I'm interested since they're not interested in me.
i get so self conscious. Like I think, omg does this shirt make me look gross or something? I don't dress like slut either. I usually just wear jeans, chucks, a shirt and a cardigan. And I don't have a big ass or anything. Some people tell me I'm pretty. I expect the "you're pretty but you'd look better thinner". But no one has ever told me that.
So idk. I can go on about my personality but those people don't know me so they don't know what I'm like.
Anyway, why do they act like that?
Are they making fun of me? Or are they desperate or something?
I don't take these people seriously.
Maybe they think I seem nice and I want to be my friends?
You can be honest. Idc.
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It could be any of those things or none of them. Unfortunately, not all males think alike, not as much as people lead us to believe. I'm not saying that people are not cruel because they can be. It's best not to take these people seriously (harder in practice than in theory) and just go on being a great person you can be. You really cannot stop people thinking things about you, good or bad and people do think good or bad things through jealously, anger, victimisation or any means.
Many people like slim, many like overweight, many like average, there is no set definition. All that should matter is that if someone likes you it is for you and that you and them can be happy.1