I just want to point out that I don't feel all that attractive, and I find it hard to get dates before anyone worries this an ego thing.
Anyway, my family got together today for mothers day and for some reason my sisters fiance brought up that women are lucky. He said his buddy can never get girls because he isn't the best looking man, and that it's easier for an ugly girl to get dates then an ugly man. I disagree with him. I think it's harder for an ugly girl to get in a relationship then for an ugly guy. This started a huge debate where somehow most people in my family (women as well) agreed that men have it harder. My sister brought up that guys are called creepy even when they aren't by girls. There were only a few of us who think ugly girls have it harder. I think men care more about how their partners look than girls do.
So I am wondering how other people feel about this topic.
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well you can make yourself beautiful, just a few simple things that I suggest her for you. your not ugly, you are making not look good too guys, because you have made that decision your ugly, so will do everything in your power to give off that image to guys. confidence is the key. if don't have self belief, you don't have a life. ugly or beautiful.
Jo Brand is ugly, but she’s still married and has kids. Why? Well probably because she has a good personality and she is actually more confident than other women who have her sort of appearance. True if you look ugly then the number of guys interested are going to be reduced. But what you can do is make yourself look more attractive, wear the right clothes, have your hair done, show off parts of your body that look good, be confident and demonstrate your personality.
If you go to google and select "Images" to search for images, first of all type in "ugly betty" then type in "America ferrera". It's hard to believe but they are the same woman. I know she's made up to look ugly as part of her character, but it just shows what a difference people can make to themselves by wearing different clothes and different makeup and having a different hairstyle.
Hair is very important it’s probably the first thing that a guy notices about a woman, when he looks at her from a distance. Nice looking, feminine hair makes him think, there is a healthy young looking woman over there, she looks after herself and has good hygiene. If she has good hygiene on that part of her body, she’s likely to have good hygiene in other areas. I sometimes make the mistake of seeing a woman with gorgeous hair and thinking, gosh there's a sexy young babe over there, she turns round and it turns out she is old enough to be my grandmother. So that's how much hair makes a difference to a guy, get your hair done and notice the difference.
The other important thing to note about your perception that you are too ugly for anyone are the studies of what attracts men to women. There are all sorts of theories but the basis of these theories suggest that guys go for women that have similar features to themselves or similar features to their mothers. This was proven lately by headlines that twins that were seperated at birth got married without realising they were brother and sister. So what I'm saying here is you are bound to have similar features to other people, whether you consider yourself ugly or not, it doesn't stop you from finding a guy that finds you attractive.0
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