I wear red lipstick everyday. It's my signature lip color basically. Well I am going to be a bridesmaid in my in a friends wedding and I was talking to my Mom about how I'd do my makeup for the wedding and she said she didn't think I should wear red lipstick because it will take away from the bride. My friend has never asked me not to wear it or specified how I should wear my makeup, but now I'm paranoid. I always wear it and I love it...should I not wear it that day?
Is that disrespectful to her?
I asked her what I should do with my makeup and she said I an wear it however I want. I guess I'm just uncomfortable with this still because I don't want her to say that for fear of seeming like a bridezilla. I just want her to be happy on her day. I might just skip the red.
Why not just ask your friend? I assume she is a close friend if she asked you to be a bridesmaid. So you should be able to talk to her about it. She may not care, but even if she does she will know that you respect her enough to be concerned.
Don't worry, no one will pay much attention to the bridesmaid's makeup except guys who might be interested in you. The whole wedding is focused on the bride. Most of the eople there are her family, probably. No oneis going to be commentng on how you are takng attention away from the one in white!