I have a friend with an amazing personality but she's never had a boyfriend and hardly had a date. I wasn't sure why until I came here and learned that some guys are sincerely embarassed to have a girlfriend who is bigger. So I'm curious if being a chubby girl with a lot of tummy can truly make guys not want to take you serious on a romantic level? If so, what's the big deal?
Of course it reduces her romantic possibilities. Physical and sexual attraction are a HUGE part of romantic interest, and generally speaking a chubby girl with a large belly will be less attractive than a thiner version of the same girl. Maybe start working out with your friend.
I'm sorry but how is this even a question? Of course most people don't want to have an over weight significant other. There are "chubby chasers" out there that like it, but most people want their partner, and themselves to be in shape.