OK, a friend of mine asked me for advice on something very unique. Usually, I have great advice to give my friends, but this time I was sort of stumped (which is rare). She tells me that when guys look into her eyes they smile, seem amused, or even seem to be turned on. She says that even guys who seemed uninterested, gaze into her eyes, suddenly they start to persue her after lingering eye contact.
When I look at my friend, her eyes just look regular to me, but then I'm a girl. So I told her maybe she was being sensitive and over analytical. but truthfully, I don't know. So, my question is, what are they seeing that makes them get excited? I don't believe in a hypnotic gazes, but, I just don't know what to make of her experience. Maybe she's throwing out signals unintentionally? I asked her if she was flirting with these guys when this happened and she said no. I wanted to ask some of our mutual friends, but I thought not of it, bcs I didn't want it to turn into a gossip fest. She's a happy nice person--maybe a little edgy, but overall just a cool friend.
So why is this happening. What is it that you'd see in a girl's eyes that would make you amused, interested or even be a turn on? Thanks in advance.
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It's true! It helps if the girl has big pretty eyes! Men are visual creatures. If you have a certain twinkle or look/stare in your eyes that shows a certain warmness, comfort, or seduction PLUS a killer smile you'll draw in guys like a moth to a flame! It's kind hard to describe. Some girls just have that look.
It's also all about communication and paying attention. I think a lot of young people now forgot how to look at someone's eyes when they're talking to each other. You can tell when someone is being genuine, lying, or attracted to you just by focusing your attention on their eyes. It's about establishing a connection on an emotional level and showing interest.