My guy friend really likes me and has told me several times now. He's such a sweet, caring, good guy, but he's not very good looking and it really keeps me from being attracted to him. I love his personality, we get along great, and have an awesome time when we hang out, but I'm just not physically attracted to him and it keeps me from wanting a relationship with him.
I know real beauty is on the inside and looks don't last forever, but I don't find him the least bit cute at all and it's really distracting!
Also, I've tried to look past it and imagine him as my boyfriend, but it's really difficult. I'm really attracted to his personality and I enjoy the way we get along, but it seems his looks just put me off. Am I really that shallow and terrible of a person? Do I just ignore the fact that I'm not physically attracted to him and date him? What happens down the line from this decision?
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It's not his LOOKS that turns you off.
The problem is that there is no sexual tension, no masculine energy to ignite you feminine energy ... nothing to turns you on. " He's such a sweet, caring, good guy"
From your description, he obviously plays more of a GiRLFRIEND role with you, and I'm assuming your not into sleeping with your girlfriends.