So, I'm known as the school "prude". I'm Christian, I don't like dirty jokes, and there is NO WAY I will have sex until I am married. At school, people talk to me like I'm a little kid. They say things like "your so cute"... guys and girls both.
I'm not like... over the top about it, but when people ask me my views on certain things (sex, dress, etc), I have a really conservative and modest view point on them. (some people don't like me at all for this)
Are purity and innocense annoying qualities for a16 year old girl to have?
Would you ever have intrest in a person who was pure and innocent?
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i was, and am in your shoes and I'm 20! hah! I can answer this question very well because I've been in your shoes! People still say the same about me, I have tough times fitting in with the rest of the crowd, everyone drinks, smokes, has sex, parties and I'm sitting in my little corner reading. I have ambitions, I have interests, I am open to go out have fun, but my type of fun is not getting wasted and knocked up...its being responsible, having an awesome time with my buds, getting home safe and most importantly, being myself. I never let people get to me, and you shouldnt either. Just be proud of who you are and be confident! Don't show the world who you are, if they ask, theyll find out for themselves. When you get to college, trust me it gets worse, people change, get exposed to more peer pressure to fit in, guys wanna get laid, be bad ass, you get swayed in easily especially if you dorm at your school, where you live with people and have no choice but to find a group of friends. You just have to be strong and find friends like your own type with similar morals, people you can click with.
In the end, its worth it sticking to your own beliefs! I have had people told me they admire me, look up to me, wanna be like me, wish they were in my shoes, I've had guys like me because I'm different, and not like other girls who don't know where they stand and are confused, I've had guys tell me I intimidate them and that I am the dream girl most mature men want to be with in the end. Trust me that feeling is the best feeling ever, to know you're happy being you and that there are others out there who like you for who you are.
being innocent and pure and not bad and will never be. its not necessarily better than those who are immoral, everyone follows a different path in life, everyone has their own definition of right and wrong, you just gotta do what you wanna do and what you believe in, and if you make a few mistakes, don't worry because that's what life is all about, learning from mistakes and improvng yourself.
hope this answers your q =)2