I really don't want to sound conceited but it's an honest question. Being attractive can get get annoying! Especially if creepy people hit on me all the time. I also feel like guys just talk to me and be nice to me so they can try and get in my pants. There are times I wish I was average looking so people could take me more seriously, especially guys. I feel like I get no real respect unless I work for it and show I'm more than just a pretty face.
Does anyone agree with me? Does it not get tiring to never be taken seriously because of your looks?
I don't mind when guys approach me and want to really talk to me, but having guys gawk at you and all the cat calls get really old.
I feel like most guys are too intimidated to really approach me, but they are willing to stare creepily...and the creeps are always willing to shout nasty things at me.
I told a couple co-workers that I hadn't had a date in 6 months and they both promptly dropped their jaws. One of the girls said she always assumed I had lots of guys after me.
I think the other thing is that guys kind of assume that they can't have a good relationship, great conversation, a caring partner, AND looks...so they kind of just look at you as a pretty face and nothing more. To me that's the most frustrating thing of all.
Sometimes I dress down so that I won't get as much attention, and I almost always have head phones on when I'm walking around town so that I don't have to hear any weird or sexual comments, It does get exhausting..
Not a lot of people take this kind of question seriously, cause they think it's attention seeking..
That's not always the case. I find that just because a guy is talking to you doesn't mean his only intention is to get into your panties. There are guys out there who just want to meet a great looking female & hold a conversation.
It doesn't get tiring at all. At least to me anyways. There is a fine line between a pretty face and intelligence. If you aren't been taken too seriously, maybe there is something missing. I personally enjoy meeting people, even if they are in it for the looks. You just have to show that you're not just a pretty face.
Omg its as if I wrote this question lol. I feel the exact same way. most guys that ask me out just want makeout sessions and NOT a relationship:( 3/4 of them are jerks, the remainining quarter, I'm just nota ttracted to them. And yes, sometimes I've wished being just average so that the guys that asked me out asked me out because they genuinely like me and my soul, not only my body:(
only when guys can't say nothing more than ''cuuuuute'' ''hot hot hot'' ''can you give me your number?''
yes. everyone has different standards of beauty. I get hit on a lot, and a lot of male attention. maybe not everyone would think I am amazing looking, and I don't think I'm some VS model but a fair number of men are sexually attracted to me.
and it has both advantages and disadvantages. it sucks when guys just want to use you for sex, I agree. I do think sometimes certain girls may have harder times finding a relationship because of their looks.