Say a girl has a healthy BMI but doesn't have thin thighs or a super flat stomach...is she still datable? If she has a really pretty face would guys look past her body? datable
- Not datable, please explain moreVote A
- Datable, please explain moreVote B
- I'm a girl, show me the resultsVote C
Most Helpful Guy
Fist off the BMI is extremely flawed. Don't obsess on that by too much. Secondly, a girl doesn't have to be perfect, no. I've actually gone into it about a girls looks a couple times today.
How picky are you about a girl's body? link
I don't know. It's not really a rigid set of rules. I guess I'd like her to be under 200, but I have let that slide before too. I guess I'd prefer she just wasn't so thin I can count or feel her bones. So skinny that her pelvic bone sicks out, or some other boney part of her is jabbing into me. I want her to have SOME meat on her bones. Fat or muscle. I just want her to still be soft and not boney. Beyond that, I'm pretty loose about things. Honestly, though, looks are not my deciding factor. Period.
Are guys sincere about this? link
Honestly, if I assess your attractiveness in any way I'm being honest. If I say you look cute, sexy, beautiful, gorgeous, whatever, I mean what I say, and I try to make sure I say it right. (Although some seem to TRY to take a compliment as a negative some days.) If you want me to point out flaws I can, but honestly there's two things about that.
One: Sometimes the flaws are what make someone so unique and beautiful, because really beauty is subjective.
Two: Sometimes the flaws are so minor they aren't worth pointing out. Why obsess on them? Why do this to yourself? Heck, some people might not even notice them. I might not have even noticed!
Anyway in short I don't necessarily feel obligated, as such, though I think people's self esteems are low enough. Sometimes I do think a casual reminder of why they're so beautiful might do them good. But as I said, I'm never going to lie to you about what I think.
That's my view.
So I meant every bit of this. No you don't have to be perfect. Yes, you're completely datable. Finally, don't worry too much about the BMI. It's flawed, and at best, these days is serves as a really rough guideline.
I hope you feel better real soon.0