From a perspective of a woman in a relationship...
If you knew your boyfriend has a thing for this things and he would ask you really nicely to wear theme for him, would you (perhaps you already did) feel good and do it or would you feel bad, perhaps even offended? Most guys really like this things and I wonder, what is your perspective on this?
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I'm not really comfortable with this level of thing, but I know my boyfriend likes skirts and lingerie. I'm a girl who always wore jeans, but for him I've picked up a few skirts/dresses, and some bedroom wear. The pleased response I get from him is usually more than the discomfort I experience at being self conscious, and with encouraging words and smiles from him, I can usually open up enough that I'm not worrying about how I look.
Yes, it kills the mood for a bit, but I find that when the girl feels like the mood's done, the guy can encourage her to feel sexy and confident again with a little bit of effort. I'd say try to stay playful and upbeat for a while, and if it's her style, get a little romantic about it. 10, 15 minutes of your time off track could lead to several hours of fun in the manner you were looking for, and make the next experience easier.2