My husband and me have been married for 3 weeks now, And he never saw my breasts before (even when we were dating). He has been begging me to let see them in the dark but I tell him no. I have a horrible scar on one of my breast and it looks gross. When we have make love I keep my bra on. He says I'm being unfair and he won't make fun of me. Am I being unreasonable ?
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hun.. he married you knowing you have this scar... he loves you... and he's not going to judge you... start with taking your bra off in the dark... he's your husband and you can't be afraid to be who you are in front of him for the rest of your life! it is unfair... and he deserves all of you and you deserve to know that he loves you for who you are... scar or not...! ease into it.. everyone has things their insecure about... but he deserves all of you... insecurities and all!2