Most girls think I'm a very pretty girl. I get commented a lot on my looks, especially my body. But only from women. And girls always see competition in me.
Guys on the other hand don't find me attractive. I get a lot looks on the street from people but I never had a boyfriend and I never get hit on.
My question is, how can I be also sexy for guys?
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I don't know if the problem is with you and your body. If girls find you as competition and the guys don't find you attractive then maybe you're just not what they're looking for or there is something very wrong with them. If you do have a nice girlish body then maybe the problem has something to do with how you act. Ultimately, you should try to act like yourself, but there are some things that you can do behavior wise to help you look more attractive. Smiling always works for both men and women. Smiling indicates to another person that you are positive and happy. All people want to be around other people that make them positive, laugh, or be happy. Another thing that you can do is make full eye contact when you look at someone. Making full eye contact when you look at someone displays that you are respectful since you are giving that person you full undivided attention. Also making full eye contact can help you seem mysterious like a hypnotist. My final piece of advice is to stay open and look as approachable as possible. A guy will approach a girl that he is interested in most of the time if the girl looks approachable. So try not to look angry or reserved by having your arms folded across your chest. Also, try to be by yourself if you're trying to attract a man (I know it's risky with creepy men out there in the world) because some men get nervous and will not approach a girl that they are interested in if that girl is a group with other girls that are her friends. I hope my advice can help you out somehow, I hope that it isn't too long or difficult to understand, and best of luck finding attracting a guy you're looking for. Peace and Blessings.1