In the past year I've gotten rejected by 4 girls for the same reason, because I'm short. It just really depresses me that something I have no control over ruins all my chances with getting women. I'm 19 and I'm only 5'5 without shoes. sometimes I wonder if was adopted because it just so happens my dad is 6'2. I have an athletic build, great personality, can make anyone laugh, id say I'm pretty good looking because when girls see my pics of just my face think I'm hot, but when they see my height they look away. I've lost so much confidence in the past year due to my lack of height. I can't get a job with my height because people are cruel. I use to play basketball and football in middle school, but now...hah. middle school was great because I was taller than everyone (haven't grown since 5th or 6th grd) I had a great rep. girls say they want a man to protect them, I'm a boxer and have been doing it for a long time which I love because you always have a fair fight. but being short I'm looked as weak. OK enough bragging. bottom line is why do women place so much value on a mans height? I'm trying to make up for it by bodybuilding because I love the pump (guys know what I'm talking bout), I've had many jealous tall skinny guys say I have short mans syndrome or something like that because I'm stronger than them. id give up anything to be average height. I hope that when I die and get reborn to another human and I'm tall. today's society is so cruel. GIVES ME SOME ADVICE AND PLEASE GIVE ME AS MUCH SAD TRUTH AS POSSIBLE.
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Dear height envy I prefer to date guys taller than me because of the primal protection instinct I like that a tall guy makes me feel save and there are proportionality issues that come into play ladies you know what I'm talking about. However there are ALLOT of short girls girls who are under 5'5" average height for women is 5'5" men is 5'7" plus you are nineteen you have at least six years of potential growth left if you do have it in your genes otherwise you have to love what you have and four girls in a year is nothing you need to hit on way more girls! I suggest going to girls that you find less attractive first to boost your confidence once you can comfortably talk to average girls start talking to girls who you are really attracted to. Confidence and security are the most important aspects to dating if you are secure the way you are and you bounce back from rejection you are unstopable! Remember every no get's you closer to a yes and though rejection hurts big time (as much as getting punched) you gotta keep trying you will meet an amazing girl as long as you keep putting yourself out there.