Two days ago I've finally came to the realization that people are intimidated by my looks. (since I've been told I look like a bitch, I look like someone's who's full of themselves and of course I think I'm the best) Now what I'm wondering is whether my looks are good or bad, is being intimidated by them a good thing?
And do you think that people are intimidated by your looks? PLEASE SHARE!
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When people are intimidated by you I would say to enable them to be comfortable around you/approach you, you have to put more effort into appearing non-intimidating. Smile more, be friendly, build a good reputation, get to know a lot of people, make the first friendly gesture. Just basically go out of your way to prove them wrong and the rest will stop being scared of you. Honestly it depends how you look that determines whether or not it's a good or bad thing for you to be intimidating.
Yeah, people are. People have told me similar things. Sometimes I get comments on how surprised they were at how nice I am. I remember a few years ago when a friend of mine told me on the first day of secondary school, when she first saw me she thought I was going to be the next school bully. I had a glaring problem, couldn't help it. My face just went into self defense mode if I was left on my own. Don't have it much any more though. But I still have to put some effort into looking neutral, when I feel neutral. Kids still tell me I have a scary face though and I believe with things like that, kids are honest. I'm not that approachable, but that's fine cus' I'm not afraid to throw down the obvious signals/approach.
Just work on it, you'll be fine.2