Why can't guys understand that girls can't do certain things when they have on a skirt or dress?
My boyfriend randomly picked me up when I had on a skirt and made me flash the entire world my panties.
Guys, I know you're not the one wearing it but do you think of these things at all?
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Sometimes, we forget. Forgive us. =)
For example, I forgot for a moment that a friend had terrible sunburns on his shoulders and his back. I wasn't expecting him to cry out in pain when I jokingly punched him in the shoulder.
I had just forgotten.
Question to you: Have you never forgotten such a thing before?
Something like asking the income of a recently fired family member, only to cause an awkward silence? I did that once too.
It seems like what I did in either case was very rude, but I wasn't really intending to do any harm. I just wasn't thinking. My memory is also very... "selective". I remember all sorts of useless information I read, yet I can't remember what I ate for dinner yesterday night.
I... I seriously can't remember it, now that I think of it. This is... frightening...
Anyway, back to the topic.
Try and focus on the fact that your boyfriend did not do this deliberately. He simply didn't think for a moment. He is still the one responsible for what happened, but there is no "evil" there. He just didn't think things through. So no, what he did isn't "rude", but it is "negligent".1