By attractive I mean well dressed, good posture, etc, etc. What are some things that isntantly come to mind or that you wonder about?
So, if you tend to think a good looking guy -probably- gets around with multiple girls/ is a player/ is experienced dealing with the opposite gender, experienced in bed, etc... what would you think if you found out he is the opposite...not very experience for his age, prefers to date one girl at a time/ have a GF. What then? ...
I'm not usually attracted to a man who seems to take more time getting ready than I do or any girl does for that matter.
However, there is a difference between fashionably dressed and cleanly dressed.
Good posture is always a plus, but again there is a difference between puffed up, "I am a stud" posture and just plain good posture.
There is also a difference between walking like he has weights hanging from his scrotum or just got off a horse, and walking with a spring in his step.
So I guess it all depends on what you mean in your question.
If you were referring to mostly the former, I would agree with most of the girls here, except the ones who find it hot. If you were referring to mostly the latter, then I would find it naturally attractive. Thoughts? Won't come until I actually meet him.
Second part of the question, if I found him to be the opposite of his swagger, I'd wonder what is motive for acting like that is in the first place. What type of woman is he trying to pick up? The ones who sleep around? Good luck.
If you are quality yourself, you should look for quality. And in my opinion, a man who does not sleep around is quality, but that's because it is something that is part of my own personal values as well.
"The things I would do to that man in private. Oh God. The things, oh the things. He's way too good for me to even be looking at him. If he catches me checking him out, he's going to have a good chuckle over it with his friends later. I need to look away before he sees. Can't. Look. Away...Eyes. Glued. To hotness... F***he saw me."
I've met hotties that lost me at the "opening" conversation lol with the different groups I'm with they are boring/gay(haha)/too smart they correct/crazy fun/ or just jealous..basically to me I think the same thing every time I see guys "oh well you look at that"
If I found out the opposite... hmmm... I would make sure to know him for who he is. And if I somehow offended him with my assumptions, I would apologize from the bottom of my heart, and ask for forgiveness.
I only clicked on this, was to see what women felt about this. And to be honest all I learned is that women treat attractive men the same way men treat attractive women. We think the same things, and respond in similar ways, yet we get bitched at by women because of it, but its perfectly OK for women. Get it together ladies, you can't be mad at guys for assuming a really hot girl is a player aka slut, if you feel the same way about an attractive man