The title speaks for it's self! So why are we so superifcial? Why is
body image so important? And, who gets to decide if you're boring
I see questions on here, alot. About, looks, body image and how not to be boring! And, I have no idea why!?
Looks, yes they help! But, they shouldn't be the most important!
What happens if you're not born with the looks of a super model
or a studdly hollywood actor? You really gonna tell me that those
people never fall in love, because I beg to differ! What, are you gonna tell me that you'd rather have someone attractive, who can
be your arm candy! Over, someone who has a really good heart
and will love you forever no matter what?!
Body image, sure it's good to mantain a healthy weight, but only
so you don't drop dead of a heart attack at a young age! Who
cares if it looks good, if you're gonna be healthy, do it for that
reason, not for superficail ones! If a guy doesn't have abs and a
girl has some meat on her bones, there should be nothing wrong
with that! Everything in moderation, so as long as you don't over
do it, what's the big deal!?
Boring, is a word that people throw around here, way too much!
What one man or woman finds boring, another may not! So, to
tell someone to stop being boring, is just ridiculous! I honestly
believe that people fear what they don't know, so if a guy or girl
is on a date with someone and they don't know what there're
talking about. It's easier for them to say that person is boring,
then to just admit they don't understand! Here's an idea, instead
of that person changing everything about themselves to fit your
intellectual needs, why don't you just ASK THEM WHAT THERE"RE TALKING ABOUT! And, I'm sure they'd be a happy
to explain it to you! I'm just sayin, know body should have to
form themselves into the perfect mold for the opposite gender,
you as you are should be enough, and vicea versea!
That;s how I feel, now it's your turn!? Thanks! : )
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I feel that your entire paragraph on looks is a perfect example of hypocrisy. You're saying that the only ones who are truly beautiful and pretty are the supermodels and the actors, and only they can be attractive.
That is just wrong. In fact, I personally don't even find many of those actors attractive, and have absolutely no idea why other people are drooling at them.
The reason why they seem more attractive is because more people know about them and say they're attractive - also their makeup that seems natural, and not as "make-up makeup".
You should just check around and see some normal guys and girls around you who don't fancy themselves out and learn to admire natural beauty. That's what looks really are, not that bullcr-- from Hollywood and whatever, being size minus and stuff.
Not to mention, looks are an important factor in attraction, just not in the way you mean it.
You can just look at someone's face and physique and hear their voice - you'll immediately know if you can find them attractive or not. Or have you forgotten?0