I've been called a douche solely for that reason. And I actually worked out for a few years for sports and not just the looks. I don't think some people realize (especially women) how challenging it is to put on a good amount of noticeable muscle. You have to partially surround your life around the gym (changing all your eating habits, cutting out bad food, making sure you have energy to lift heavy), busting your ass, doing all kinds of work, and constantly being sore.
So what's the deal?
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It's unfortunate for you but often times guys that fit that description are douchy. It's not fair that you are judged on their behavior but if more guys who looked like that were nicer guys then less people would be judgemental.
I would give a guy a chance before I judge. I know the dedication it takes and I admire it.1