There's this girl I like who works at this donuts and coffee shop that's a block away from where I live. She always works the nights and I think her parents own the shop. I can't stop thinking about her. She is so beautiful. Before it was just feelings based on her looks but now, I just want to talk with her and if maybe she would go on a date with me and connect for at least just once, that would be enough for me even if she laughed and called me a pathetic loser afterward. The biggest problem is that I don't know how to talk with girls and I've never had a girl like me and I never talked with a girl before. I'm chubby (6'2 and 240 lbs. of fat) and not a 'hot guy'. If I ever try to talk with her I'm too afraid of the possible harsh rejection. I thought maybe if I could make her laugh (all my friends, the only little amount that I have, tell me that I'm very funny and people that I've met randomly have said that I'm really funny) and show her my personality, I could have a chance. What should I do? Should I just let it go and not even try and keep my dignity and not be rejected? What should I do and what should I say?
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Just say that you are only that weight because you just keep on getting donuts from there so that you can see her...romantic in a very creepy way sort of :p
On a more serious note though, just go for it, don't expect to crack one joke and for her to leap into your arms, just treat it more as getting to know a friend, so you won't feel too back if she doesn't like you in that way, but you still may gain an extra friend which could do wonders for your confidence, and even if you get rejected, at least you would know, you will never forgrt about it untill you just try at least! screw dignity just try and have fun what ever way it goes!0