I think I'm about a 7, though most would probably say one or 2.
I would say I have potential, but again, it seems to be that very few people agree, so they're not willing to take the tiny amounts of risk in order to help me to improve my situation, so I'm stuck at the one or 2 range until that happens (if ever).
I would like to be attracted to my future girlfriend or wife (if I have one) and not just fall into a relationship that is completely inappropriate for me out of desperation or something similar. Ideally, I'd like someone that could be a great fit with me; but in order for life to be more successful, she'd probably have to be at least a 7-8 in personality AND looks, so that she's not "stuck" in a situation.
My rating scale? I could care less if people rate me a 0/10 or a 10/10.
Ive been through this insecurity before, a phase where all human beings question their worth.
But hey, I do the same routine, clubs and bars every weekend, wake up to a different chick every week. By the time guys achieve my level they would have developed nerves of steel to not give a f*ck on what people around them say.
I'd say I'm a solid 6. lol. On my good days, I can feel like a 7, but it doesn't get any higher than that, in my opinion.
I'm often told that my standards (7+) for a suitable partner are unreasonably high. Honestly, though, I'd say that it never really matters in the end. I've gotten into close friendships with girls below my standards, of which I would not have minded dating.
I get a lot of positive signal from girls even when we hardly know each other, so I guess it is my appearance that is attracting them. So I give myself an 8.
i want my partner to be like 6-8. Cause the type of girl I want is not those very attractive, what I want is more of the homely type, who does not really care about their appearance that much (cause they care more about family).
I'd give myself an 8 based on past experience. Over the years most of the girls I've dated have approached me first, so that tells me that they must find appearance attractive, because from what I understand girls approaching guys first is kind of a rare thing.
Probably a 7, if I wasn't short and my hands were bigger and my nose wasn't crooked I would definetely be a 10 lol. I actually do think I am aboce average despite all of my defects. I am definetely not a model though.
I probably don't give myself enough credit, but I think saying I'm average would be pretty generous. Luckily I make up for it in pretty much every other way, so I'm okay with it. Nobody can be perfect right? Rather my looks be below average than my intelligence or personality.
i love you shadow <3(I voted this)...coz..
I don't know weather I am attractive or not but I never had any difficulty in getting the girl I want ;)
On an average to good day, I'd rate myself as a 6, maybe a 7 on a really good day. But beauty and attractiveness are subjective. Because of that, I only judge myself based on the best I know I could ever look with the body and features I've been given (through changing hair and clothing styles, losing some more weight, etc.) and try not to stack myself up to other people very much. Also, because of this, I don't have a specific list of features in my mind that make a guy attractive, so I can't really assign a number to how I'd want a guy to look. I'm not extremely shallow like some people are with looks, but I'd lie if I said that looks didn't matter at all. We all have a line we wouldn't cross when it comes to looks on the opposite gender.
I think I'm about a 5 maybe 6 on a really good day. I mean I don't think I'm really ugly or anything, but I don't think I'm very pretty either. I'm just kind of there like a chair or maybe a table lol.
Other people though, I guess I would say 4 or 5 but when it comes down to it, it doesn't really matter. Also, if I really like someone's personality, traits that I would normally consider unattractive become cute little quirks. Like "No, his nose isn't big, it's just shaped differently. It's so cute." That sort of thing.
Well before my boyfriend and I actually started dating, he rated me as an 8 (cause we were just friends then) So I'm gonna go with that. I rated him the same. We don't even rate each other now that we are dating, it would only cause trouble.
Honestly, I'm perfectly happy with the way I am, but if I had to give a number, probably around a 6.5?
As for my guy, personally, I'm attracted to confidence. If he's got confidence, he can fool me into thinking he's a 10, even though he's a 4... it's all relative though. In retrospect, I've been with 5 to 9's.
My love can be a one but he has to love me a lot! :)!
I think attractiveness and how goodlooking a person is are two different things. In terms of attractiveness, I do get a fair share of men that stare/watch/approach me. My friends (girls and guys) have commented on the amount of attention I get but it doesn't matter to me if they aren't the type I like. In addition, I know I'm more attractive in the US and Italy than I am here. From that, I would say in terms of attractiveness I maybe a 7.5+
In terms of how goodlooking I am, I believe a relatively constant number for me would be a 7 (not that anyone to my knowledge has actually ever given me a number but yeah). I base my attractiveness on the relative attractiveness of the guys that look at me. I can get the guys I'd consider an 8 or a 9 so I can't be much less (my logic).
The lowest I'd go for would be a 7 face wise, but body for me matters too. What can I say, a tad shallow.
I've never been good with that number scale lol
i think I'm pretty but I don't stand out. I guess between average and gorgeous I'm closer to the average end of the scale.
i could definitely be with an "average" guy because if I liked him he'd be incredibly cute to me :)