I am 5'7 and I am really self concerned about it, mostly because I feel I cannot be the "man" that every woman out there wants, the one that can protects them or the man that doesn't let anybody walk all over him; mostly because I think any body taller than me can kick my ass easily and since most men are taller than me, then I am screwed. Also I see the most attractive women always with the tallest guys, or girls always chasing tall men. While we the short guys are always getting whatever we can.
Also my personality is I guess sh*tty, I can't make friendships, I can't attract women; all of them run away as fast as they can once I start to become interested in them. No body calls me, texts me or messages me on Facebook or anything like that, I post something on my wall, no body comments or likes it.
I hate my life and how nothing comes the way I plan it to. Right now I am everything I don't want to be.
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I kind of feel your pain. Like I'm not short and flirty like most guys want and for awhile I had a rough time being so tall. When finally I got the courage to ask my crush to the Sadies Hawkins dance to be rejected. Later to like another guy who liked 4 other girls and lie to me (all in 2 months) Life is tough I have to tell you but about feeling like girls don't want you: a good friend of mine said when I told him about how guys want short girls he said "Guys don' know what they want. Guys are told what they want by society." Which same goes for girls. You just need to find someone that'll see past that. See something in you that you didn't think possible. It'll take time and a couple heartbreaks to get it right. But when you do it will be well worth it. If the treasure were really that easy to find, it wouldn't be a treasure hunt, would it? So keep your head up :) and be the friend that you wished you had.
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