Because she's not seeing the exterior like you are, she is looking at how the guy treats her and that is most important.
I'd rather be with someone unattractive who gives me the world vs.
Someone very attractive, who is a complete ass.
Think about it,
When you think of marrying a person someday you want someone that will be there with you to the end (that is hard to find). So in all honestly, you're looking at him like, "Wow you hit the jackpot", but in all reality she did as well. She found someone that is a rarity.
She's a hottie; she has options and she chose him. That means he's doing something that other guys aren't and I feel so relieved that there are guys like that left. Guys who see that should feel relieved that there are girls like that left! That means we all haven't become gold digging, selfish, sex obsessed, unreliable heart breakers! Some of us aren't entirely shallow!
I never really understand it either, but it all depends on the people. Maybe they were friends and fell for each other, maybe she's a gold digger, you never can tell. As long as they're on the same page, it doesn't really matter.
What do you feel when you see a ridiculously attractive guy with an ugly fat girl?
When I see an attractive girl with a way below average guy, I think: either he has money, either the girl has been played around so many times she's finally learned her lesson and chose someone who truly loved her.
When I see an attractive guy with a way below average girl though, I think he must be cheating on her and she takes him back, and she puts out A LOT. Oh and he doesn't have to worry about competition with other males.
- He has a lot of money
-He's giving her something and helping her with something.
hes most likely an awesome guy
I rarely, if ever see this. In fact, I can't remember the last time I've seen this. But to play devil's advocate, I'd think he is rich and spending his money on her. Why else would she be with him? Women care about looks too so if you notice a very very good looking woman dating that far under her level, obviously somethings up.
yeah... you should see it the other way around.. When you see a very good looking guy, with a fat chick, & not cute.. and here's me wonder wtf is wrong with the world. but yeah I would think the guy would just be in it for the sex or money. ha ha he could have a sexual fetish with fat chicks also.. haha
I don't see this too often where the guy is actually ugly or fat (although I have seen it before)... but I see plenty of good looking, yet maybe slightly overweight or stocky guys, with beautiful women.
They tend to be the kind of guys that are well-educated and have good paying jobs and such...
What makes her attracted to him,what kind of person is he, etc. Usually nothing negative. Although I know I couldn't do that, I'm pretty judgmental and "Shallow" in terms of that. Like if you look unhealthy, I couldn't ignore that. Although I don't think perfection exists nor do I expect it, I remain within reason.
my friend is really fat but his girl is really gorgeous. I mean face and a body. but that guy is so good at talking with girls. he has confidence and all that. they got engaged actually and he is far from being rich. that makes me think that humanity ain't dead yet