Meaning, they weren't attracted to you at the start, but once they started to get to know you, your personality "shown" through and that's what led them on from the start? I thought about it, and I personally wouldn't. I know at the end of the day, everyone has their own preferences in what they find "attractive". But, I can't see myself with a man who didn't find me physically attractive. Like OK, I find myself to be relatively attractive and the man (my boyfriend) doesn't? I would find that a bit, I don't know if 'weird is the word..but. What woman doesn't want to feel beautiful to their man. You want to show a bit and wear sexy clothes that your man finds attractive on you. Yea, personality is important, and the cliche "Looks aren't everything" line in a relationship, but you want to feel comfortable, and I just wouldn't FEEL comfortable. Your take?
I agree. Less looks and more chemistry is what you mean. Good looks vary from person to person. For example, I have a good male friend who has a thing for Latino girls and a female friend from years back who digs chubby guys. You on the other hand may find chubby guys not so hot. The important thing isn't that he looks good so much as he looks good to you. Life is too short to be with people you aren't crazy about.
Ummm... if they were not attracted to me, then I would not want to be with them. If she thinks that I am average-looking overall, but IS attracted to me (based on her likes and dislikes), then I would be (if I felt attracted to her).
No because what will happen when he meets a fine girl with a good personality? He'd think of her as an upgrade and drop me instantly. Guys aren't happy with women they don't find beautiful. I wouldn't feel comfortable and secure dating him knowing that other women are more his type.
of course. problem is, I think it'll be hard for me to even get an average looking guy to approach me without some major intervention. I get bombarded with guys that are less fortunate, both physically and mentally. average is all I want to ask for.
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