Guys and girls can answer this question. No discrimination here. 8-)
Compared to a girl that is more average-or-below looking, a very attractive female will be:
*flirted with, and approached, more often (gentlemanly guys as well as dbag-type overaggressive guys)
*more likely to encounter stalkers (internet and in real life)
*more likely to encounter crimes such as sexual harassment, robbery, sexual assault/rape, etc.
Let's be honest here; although circumstances are out of her control, a girl THAT attractive will have those things occur with her more often.
Therefore, you are more likely to get in confrontation with guys that excessively hit on her and get aggressive with her after she rejects him...
...or with stalkers that stalk her on the internet or in person...
...or with guys that disrespect her by touching her body without permission (ex. grabbing her ass at a party/bar/club).
I have literally heard dudes say they don't want to have an (to the demographic of the respective area) AMAZINGLY HOT girlfriend...
...because of the increased odds of having to deal with confrontation to protect her, because so many guys would want to desire her to the point of disrespect, or threat to her safety, for reasons said above.
As in, they follow the idea of:
"her hotness bring too much trouble and drama for me".
Guys and girls, please vote and reply as much as you like, sharing input and experiences about why these guys have a point, or are full of sh*t.
Thanks for answering! 8-)
- I'm a guy; after reading this, I would still pursue a really hot femaleVote A
- I'm a guy; after reading this, I would be LESS likely to pursue a really hot femaleVote B
- I'm a female; after reading this, I would think most guys would still puruse a hot femaleVote C
- I'm a female; after reading this, I think most guys would be LESS liikely to pursue a really hot femaleVote D
Most Helpful Guy
I voted A. I'm dating a very attractive girl, and as a result, I had to bulk up some(hit the free weights regularly) because of the inappropriate comments and gestures that she has encountered from guys. My physicality has deterred guys from being physical to the point of fighting, however, I have felt threatened for both of our safety when guys are acting out in groups. Her appearance does bring trouble, but I'm her captain, so I'll go down with the ship.3