Let's settle this myth once and for all...do pretty girls get approached more than average/ugly girls, or is it ACTUALLY the opposite- do pretty girls get approached LESS because of the intimidation factor? Thing is I've let myself go a bit, gained about 6 lbs and my body became "untoned" from 3 years ago, and guys are actually approaching me now, not attractive ones, but still guys.
So attractive girls, do you get approached a lot or no?
just realized how ridiculous this question is, because beauty is subjective...also some of you may be over or under-estimating your own attractiveness...so there really is no way to tell how often (or how rarely) legitimately attractive girls get approached, unless Heidi Klum or Kim Kardashian can answer this Q.
Guys approach girls if they have something to offer her. So if you don't look like you have high self esteem and appear lonely, guys will approach you.
I'm the opposite. I only want a guy who has something for me. He has to be attractive and manly. He has to have friends (loners are wierd) and if he's got a nice paying career I'm all for him. Weak men are such a turn-off.
I don't get approached because I am fit and have high self esteem. I've mastered the art of brushing off the ugly guys and the poor ones. Just look busy and don't make eye contact!
Okay well I'm by no means a supermodel, but I do think I'm moderately/fairly attractive, yes. I'm always polite and smiling so I don't give off a really "cold" look. But that being said, I have been told numerous times that I'm rather intimidating. Which is really unfortunate since I'm honestly super friendly to everyone (or at least I try my absolute best to be). But yeah, guys hardly ever approach me. I get a lot of stares when I'm out by men and women alike, but almost never does a guy approach/initiate.
At uni maybe two or three on my breaks, out drinking six or seven or even more. When I go out with my friends who are guys I might not get approached by other men just stared at til I feel uncomfortable. I attract confident men or at least ones who can fake confidence. I rarely agree to swap numbers or meet up again because well, most of the time rudely interupt me or come on too strong.
Guys have smiled, said hi, and held doors open for me in real life, but they never flirt or ask me out. I've really only been actively approached online, and that's also the only time I've been called attractive.
When I'm at work, I get a lot of what seem like cocky guys that ask for my number or try to hit on me and then other times there are other guys who seem shy or awkwardly giggle with their friends when I take their order. But outside of work and situations where I'm not already forced into conversation with guys they don't confront me or try to talk to me