This trainer at my gym I think is cute, we don't know each other though I did overhear basically that he does find me attractive. Many people do though (not being conceited but explaining lol) but when I overheard he was just casual about it like you'd say "its raining out" "yeah"... lol. I dont' get it, he won't make any effort or talk to me or anything, and I am intimidated because he's shown no interest and I don't know what to do... could I get him or is he not interested and I need to move on?
Well, I never made a move on about 99.9% of the girls I found really hot and would love to date. The reason is that I don't know if the girl would like it and I don't want to come off as weird or I don't see any way I could ask her out without being awkward and so on.
Asking girls out is hell for A LOT of guys out there.