My fiancee is black african, I have only seen her natural hair once in between weaves. I would love to be able to run my fingers through her natural hair. I have seen a phot of her with longer natural hair and wowwwwww. I really don't get why black women have weaves, plaits and even wigs. Natural hair on a black woman is beautiful. (She is having dreads now, so should see it natural soon!)
If you're cute and a nice person it looks great if you're a bitch your hair couldn't matter less. I like all hair styles as long as they keep it natural. I hate girls with curly hair straightening or straight hair curling.
Don't try to change your hair for guys because if you haven't already noticed,certain types of guys will hit on you than when you have your hair straightened..If you love wearing your hair natural then do it and don't worry about guys because they're going to like you anyways.