I have light ash brown hair with grayish blue eyes, it seems that the MAJORITY of women prefer darker features (noone is going to refute that). I'm thinking about dyeing my hair a darker brown ( black would be way too harsh on my skin). Should I do it? Or is it too feminine?
Confidence my good man... confidence. "Most women" will also say they're attracted to a confident man. As such... sure, dye your hair if you think it'll make you look better! But if anything... do it for you, not for them.
Besides... even if it turns out to be a complete bust... hair always grows back. ;) Good luck man!