My boyfriend used to be sort of a bad boy (drugs and all that) and used to hang out with those really made-up slutty looking girls. Now he has changed (its been a couple years since his high school days) and he is very committed to me, and I know he likes my personality. But he did admit to me, that although he wants to change, he is still attracted to the sluttier look and he said it would be nice if I dressed sexier. The thing is, I've always been more of a good girl and even though I don't dress super conservative or anything, I just wear clothes that fit but aren't too revealing and minimal make up. Eve though I do try to change a bit for him, it makes me feel very self-conscious about myself when I dress 'sluttier' and makes me feel like I'm not being myself at all. I'm just wondering if you think this will always be a problem or can guys preferences change?
I highly recommend you don't do it I mean if he's the bad boy type he'll totally understand the phrase "being fake" which is what he's trying to get you to do by dressing up simply for his entertainment when its not your style at all but if you wanna make him happy every once in a while Then go minimum slutty: skinny jeans, tube/tank top, with some killer high heels, throw the hair in a ponytail, and rock some sexy earrings...make-up: throw on a little foundation, some eye-liner, and lipstick (extra tip: if your showing cleavage get some foundation with shimmer brush it in cleavage collarbone area HOT!)
Thatss strange because he was first attracted to you the way you usually dress but I think he can change his preference or make an exception. Like my brother thinks 'slutty' girls are attractive but probably not girlfriend material like if my mom met that kind of girl it'd be all bad.
Boys are not into subtle hints, right? He probably does not want to change you, but men often want a girl to be a combination of a madonna and, well, Madonna. That he wants you to dress sexier is partly a good sign - the opposite would indicate that he is possessive.
And he might want to show you off - show his former friends that his new girl is both a good girl and also as hot as their girls. I would be game once in a while, say at halloween, but if you do not feel confident about something, do not do it.
Dress slutty for him in the bedroom, That way you're more comfortable and people won't be seeing you.