I'm 20 and I'm ugly .
I know some people say you love personality but that just doesn't count these days.
I think I have good personality. , I'm kind, a bit shy and I want people around me to be happy. But no boy likes me anyways because I'm ugly.
For example when with friend we are walking around the mall , guys turns heads looking at my friend or they approach her, and they don't notice me.
I have very nice body , What makes me ugly is my face and I can't change it.
When I was at school guys were calling me ugly ,weird,gross.. only friends I have are girls.
I'm smart and friendly but guys want only beautiful girls.
what can I do? Exist any boys for which personality is more important than look?
Most Helpful Guy
You can't say you have a good personality, and then follow that with how shy you are.
Here's the simple truth - Shy people are a pain in the ass. They are no fun.
It is true that for some guys (many guys in fact) personality can trump looks. But don't lie to yourself that you have a great personality. You're shy. That means you are a pain.
You're a pain to talk to. You are a pain to get to know. Trying to get you to come out of your self-imposed shell, is a huge effort. And when anyone does it, they find that thanks to your years of shyness, you have all the social skills of a mollusc.
That's the truth. It has nothing to do with your looks.
Stop blaming things you can't change, like your face, and accept responsibility for what you CAN change. Your personality.
When guys do this - (blame the things they can't change, like their height or their penis size) we rightly call them on their bullsh*t.
So I'm doing that here, for you. Don't bullsh*t yourself. Shy girls are a f***ing pain in our ass.1
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