I take care of myself, I workout, I wear really nice clothes, I respect everyone and I'm very smart. And I still can't get girls to show interest.
I don't understand. I don't know if I'm being oblivious to girls checking me out or I'm really not getting any looks. I don't know what to do. Its making me depressed. I see guys who look like complete slobs, and they're with really pretty girls all the time, and I can't even get one.
What do I do? Am I a lost cause?
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i can't say for sure, I would have to see you in person. however, there are so many factors. girls have more varied taste than men, and you will undoubtedly find someone who will have interest in you sometime, but meanwhile, what kind of girls are you looking at, is it any girls? or are you really particular? (this can be an inhibition) also, maybe analyze parts of yourself you haven't noticed before (this is hard.. I would do it but I cant, so I suggest you find any female you trust who can be brutally honest with you) sometimes there's something that is a huge turnoff for a girl that a guy would never notice, maybe personality wise? try to look for girls in places where you would have similar hobbies, or interests :)