We are together from 2 years and a half .. we never had sex because I wanna wait for marriage and he respects that, never tried to force me or anything , we do make out sometimes.. not a lot because we don't get too many chances to be alone though. Anyway I am not bragging I swear but in my college I am known for my curves... and several people told me I have a hot body.. including my boyfriend who claims that my body turns him on and its his fav type .. He never asked for naked pics , or anything like that ... but even though , sometimes I get the feeling that he wants me for my body ... today for example I sent him a fun text saying that I want him right now .. and he replied " I want you since the first second I knew you " .. and this got me thinking a lot .. does it mean that he always wanted me for physical stuff , even though we don't have sex ? (We are both virgins by the way ) .. please help me understand this :) thanks .. also would you as a guy stay with a girl for so long if you only wanted her for her body or physical appearance ? a while back he mentioned that he doesn't want me for my looks because eventually I ll age and I won't look as good .. so he loves me for who I am .. but I don't know .. enlighten me please ?
To those who claim that I am sick for sending such text : Well to some people sex isn't everything .. and when I say " I want you ' that doesn't mean that I wanna have sex with you .. so I don't think I'm the sick one here..
If you're thinking less of your guy or his relationship with you because your body makes his penis hard and makes him want to have sex, then I have to say, you're a royal idiot. Sex and sexual attraction is a HUGE part of a successful relationship. If you want to deny that then you should be fine being in a relationship with a guy who has sex with other women.
listen if he respects your choice of waiting untila marriage that should be enough for you to undestand he wants you for more than just your body! that does not mean he can't desire you I mean he is human everyone has desires, but a its obvious that for him there is more than just desiring or liking your body.
He wants you for your body. The real question is, does he ONLY want you for your body... He seems legit, hon but you've got to realize that if he did not want to have all kinds of sex with you, he wouldn't be dating you in the first place. I would not stay with a girl that long if it was purely physical, to answer the rest.