Ok where do I start. I am like officially depressed. I'm a girl and I feel so so so so pressured to constantly perfect and look good always. I come from a country where all the girls are so pretty, I just have to like be on the same level. I really don't know what to do. I deleted my Facebook I just couldn't do it anymore. I'm so sick of seeing size 6 clothes in shops and when you ask for a normal size they don't have it. Because of all this I'm basically trying to eat as less as I can to maintain my body and get into a more petite shape. Media doesn't help at all either. Like here, anyone who isn't happy with their appearance simply goes and does surgery. The society we live in is so ridiculous. I'm not insecure, I love my personality, I am happy with the way I look. But, just wherever you go you have to be perfect and match society standards, and the girls don't help at all. Every girl is judged by the way she looks here - then her attributes. By the way I live in Lebanon. If you've been here you would know exactly what I mean.
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I *have* been told that there are a lot of very beautiful women there, so I can believe that you feel some pressure to look good. However, while it's not a bad thing to work on your appearance, you also need to keep that at a reasonable level. You don't have to buy the latest high-end clothes or be skinny as a stick to be attractive. No matter where you are, there are going to be guys who prefer girls who are a little bigger and curvier.
The most important thing is to keep a positive attitude and let yourself FEEL sexy. If you feel it, guys will too.0