after college you're either working or going to grad school being an adult, can a guy look back at their 'youthful' days in undergrad and miss a certain girl they went to school with? especially if she was nice and had a crush on him and he didn't care about her that much in fact broke her heart?
im asking because I ran into him the other day and he was in awe just staring at me and almost seemed shocked/happy to see me, I was actually scared to see him because all those feelings of rejection came back I felt self conscious and gained some pounds and wasn't wearing a cute outfit
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Sounds like nolstalgia. I wouldn't gamble on it. If he wanted you, he would've made an excuse to see you again.
I had the same unrequited story. I bumped into her again inside a coffee shop like a year later and my heart panicked. The conversation was going very well, but I decided it was time to move on - it wasn't the same anymore. Who we were vs who we are.1