Hi:( I'm 16 and I am always extremely hard on myself. I tell myself I'm so ugly when I look in the mirror and I just hate the way I look. I always feeling like I'm not good enough and I need surgery or I should just be dead. I tell myself I need to l to lose weight because maybe that will help but idk. I wanna get to 120 pounds(5'11 and 150:( I always see pictures of gorgeous girls on instagram and I just wish I was born looking like them. Someone said that ugly ducklings blossom into swans but at this point in my life I just want it to be over because I don't like this feeling I have. It makes me cringe inside because I know I will never ever be pretty like the other girls I see. So do you change or no or only a little bit:(?
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You are a reflection of what you project.
Don't worry about losing weight, Its all about body composition not actual weight, your American football players, rugby players here in the uk are technically over weight but their body composition is muscle and they look good the female Olympic athletes are heavy girls due to their muscle-fat ratio but seriously they have hot physiques better than any skinny model. Exercise and eat well most definitely but don't go all skinny, a relatively toned curvy girl wins hands down over every other type of girl.
I myself wasn't a good looking kid through school,never had a girlfriend till I was 18 going 19, but as I've got older I feel I have got more attractive, perhaps this is due to my changed sense of clothing and hair styles, perhaps post puberty just suits me better who knows but last week I past an application process and interview to be signed on with a modeling agency, so I guess there's something they like. I do believe that ugly ducklings can blossom though, you can't change the genetic uniqueness you have but a healthy lifestyle will aid your complexion, your body ratio and overall look. Its the only thing I did different from hitting puberty to now was getting fit,strong and healthy.0