Hi:( I'm 16 and I am always extremely hard on myself. I tell myself I'm so ugly when I look in the mirror and I just hate the way I look. I always feeling like I'm not good enough and I need surgery or I should just be dead. I tell myself I need to l to lose weight because maybe that will help but idk. I wanna get to 120 pounds(5'11 and 150:( I always see pictures of gorgeous girls on instagram and I just wish I was born looking like them. Someone said that ugly ducklings blossom into swans but at this point in my life I just want it to be over because I don't like this feeling I have. It makes me cringe inside because I know I will never ever be pretty like the other girls I see. So do you change or no or only a little bit:(?
Don't worry about losing weight, Its all about body composition not actual weight, your American football players, rugby players here in the uk are technically over weight but their body composition is muscle and they look good the female Olympic athletes are heavy girls due to their muscle-fat ratio but seriously they have hot physiques better than any skinny model. Exercise and eat well most definitely but don't go all skinny, a relatively toned curvy girl wins hands down over every other type of girl.
I myself wasn't a good looking kid through school,never had a girlfriend till I was 18 going 19, but as I've got older I feel I have got more attractive, perhaps this is due to my changed sense of clothing and hair styles, perhaps post puberty just suits me better who knows but last week I past an application process and interview to be signed on with a modeling agency, so I guess there's something they like. I do believe that ugly ducklings can blossom though, you can't change the genetic uniqueness you have but a healthy lifestyle will aid your complexion, your body ratio and overall look. Its the only thing I did different from hitting puberty to now was getting fit,strong and healthy.
Hey don't talk like that. First thing you should do is stop comparing yourself to other girls. Have you ever head a guy say that a girl is too pretty? It can actually be a turn off. Also coming from someone who's had a very shy life the prettier the girl the guarantees of a guy not asking her out increase. Guys like pretty girls, but not too pretty if that makes sense. Some guys have insecurities too and wouldn't want to put up with major competition from other guys hitting a their girl because she was overkill. So you're a 150lbs, so what. That's not the end of the world. If that's not where you want to be, then just lose some weight. And chances are you look good just like you are. I know a girl on Facebook. She's engaged and all that so that's really nowhere, but I liked her the minute I laid eyes on her and would love to date her if I had that chance. But she isn't overkill, she is just right, exactly who I'd love have. The majority of guys don't like girls who are overkill. That's mostly all Hollywood's dreams and fantasies, not ours.
I look way much better. First of all because I am a guy and we age well. I am 6'6" now but was 6'4" in high school. Girls always found me attractive, but I think I am better looking now. I am sure you look great, don't be so hard on yourself and 120lbs at 5'11 is too skinny for you.
Yeah...I'm 5'4 and I need to be 120. You're too tall to be 120. I looked waaay ugly when I was 16. I'm not saying I'm attractive now, but I certainly look better than when I was 16, that's for sure. Give it a few years, you'll turn out fine.
I agree with the dude. 120 pounds for your height is way too skinny! Don't buy into that sh*t! Eat healthier and exercise if you want to get toned. Try out different makeup techniques and change up your hair once in a while. I was very hard on myself too, still am. I know I definitely look a hell of a lot better than I did in high school because I grew into my face and know what looks best on me. Add me!