i want to be as girlfriend material as I could possibly be! so any advice will help.
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Initiative! One who takes initiative in keeping things a relationship. This is a big reason I drop contact with girls I meet. A lot of girls always expect the guy to keep in touch with them. I prefer a mutual initiation for communication. I keep hearing that girls are afraid of "bothering" the guy but I barely ever hear about a guy being "annoyed" at their girlfriend talking to them.
Guys who want a relationship need to know that the girl is still interested in staying with them. If a guy doesn't call or text you for a day and you don't do something simple as saying hello he will assume you are not interested in them.
Other things include appreciation. You don't want to be taking the guy for granted. Neither should the guy take the girl for granted.1