This girl I am going after says she's 5'9. I measured my height today and I'm a tad bit under 5'7. So potentially we are looking at a 2-2.5 inch difference. Things have been going GREAT through texting and we are eventually gonna meet sometime soon. I told her I was about 2 inches shorter than her already.
So now I was thinking of buying shoes that give me like a 2 inch boost. When we first meet I wanna close the gap as much as possible. I feel like if I do that, she will not think about my height at all and can focus on my personality. Lets say if we share a romantic kiss then BAM I got her hooked and eventually when she finds out I'm a little shorter she won't even care about it by then.
PLUS, When she wears heels I can close the gap there a little and in pictures it won't look as awkward when we are next to each other. Only time I won't have my shoes on would be like in a private room with her and we could be doing something like cuddling and she won't even notice anyways lol. So what do y'all think? Could it work? Is it OK to do and not feel bad about it? Could this backfire? Need opinions please! Thanks in advance! :)
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Coming from a family where everyone is under 5'6", I feel your pain. My poor cousins deal with it all the time! I say definitely wear the boots or shoes or whatever- know why? For your own confidence boost! If you feel confident, you'll come off a lot better than if you're worrying about your height. Do it! It's not like you're lying about your height- you already told her outright. I'm sure, her being above average height for a woman, that she's used to being a little taller- so don't feel to self conscious. You'll be great!5
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