I am 23, almost 24 years old. I am not good with girls at all. Last time I had sex was a long time ago, well, in fact I have been sleeping with escorts because I was fed up of going without sex. At least with escorts I can pick a good looking one and do the deed without any problems.
Anyway, I am just not very good with girls. I am a decent looking guy, I'm not brad pitt, but I am not unattractive. been told I'm good looking in the past, and been complimented on my blue eyes. I have put on some weight in the last few years, so I look chubbier and the face and less defined.
Anyway. how do I become successful with girls? I am not that good at talking to girls. I get nervous and struggle with conversation. I speak to the escorts I have used, but it's more small talk and get down to business because I don't like to hang around.
I want to become an actor, so I may meet a nice girl at my drama classes I am going to soon. And I'm hoping acting will increase my self confidence. I get quite envious when I see couples, so I would like advice on how to interact confidently with girls.
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While I have no problems with escorts and have nothing against people who use them, it's clear that you aren't content with them. The only real way to improve your social interactions with girls is to practice, infield. Taking drama classes is a step in the right direction. If you're frequently putting yourself out there and engaging in social interactions/activities, your chances of getting a girlfriend will dramatically improve.
One good way you could practice talking to girls is going to a crowded area like a mall, or something, and making small talk with girls (or people in general). Don't go into it with anything in mind other than making conversation. Hopefully that will kind of take away some of the pressure. If you feel you're starting to run out of things to say, and things are getting awkward, end the conversation and say your goodbyes. You could try to incrementally increase the length of the conversation.
Admittedly, I've never tried this, as I've never had to. It was just suggested to me. I wish I could be of more use, but to be honest, I'm the same as you. I just got lucky.0