I've been told by a male friend that there's nothing more alluring than the following: an attractive girl whose looks make her appear strong, deep, almost to the point of seeming stand-offish, yet also reveals a certain tenderness / childishness during conversation and in mannerism.
He said that the mixture of toughness and tenderness in a girl is the most enticing thing for guys. Agree or disagree?
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I'm with a girl like this right now. She seems strong because she is self-reliant...and is not afraid to learn or try anything.(kinda like a tomboy), but she is a girlie girl in the looks and emotions department. Its like she has a strong side...and a very sensitive side at the same time. She doesn't need a guy to take care of her, but wants a guy for emotional reassurance. I like it because I'm not interested in a girl who relies on a guy for every need...yet I think its in our DNA to protect and support women both physically, and emotionally. There's a very thin line between innocent...openess, vulnerability, verses seeming childish due to immaturity. So, I guess I mostly agree.1