Would you feel like "damn I got a catch" or would that just automatically make them way less attractive to the point you'd rather be with someone that doesn't look as good but is confident?
i ask because I recently started see a girl that used to be a little heavier and she's really pretty now but doesn't feel that way, and whenever she says something like she feels she doesn't deserve me I just think "ugh, shut up please"
A lack of confidence really annoys me, big time. I'd try to coach him and encourage him and tell him how great he is as a person, not just physically. I'd have heart to hearts with him. I don't know how long I'd last if none of this took.