Okay so there's this really cute guy at the gym, we don't know each other but every time I came around near him he always stared at me I'm not talking just a glance I mean straight staring at me until we made eye contact, so its pretty obvious that he's for sure into me. I've noticed every time I caught him staring he would always smile. So my dumb self lol would stare back but then look away or pretend that I didn't see him, I don't know why I did this I don't want him to think that I'm interested in him. This would happen maybe two or three times When I saw him. So I saw the same guy again and this time he completely stopped looking at me!? So now I'm planning on talking to the guy or simply making eye contact and this time smile to show him that I'm interested ughh but I can never get him to look at me like he once did! should I talk to him to reel him back in. Do you think he'll still be interested? and why do you think he all of a sudden stops?
I know I kinda messed up & annoyed with myself, so how could I make him think I'm interested?
I'm more of a shy girl at first so I may come off as arrogant or stuck up to most but I'm by far nothing like that so that explains why I kept looking away most of the time.
people are biologically more attracted to people that they think are attracted to them, that whole play hard to get he wants what he can't have act works to; it inspires lust and activates that competitive desire , but almost every time both parties end up playing the same tactic so they end up longing for the other but no one ever acts on it, that stuff is way too james bond for everyday life , if you want this guy enough that you took to the internet to ask for advice then mine would be just go up and talk to them
if you're shy and don't know what to say or just don't have anything to talk to him about because you don't know him and don't want to seem too forward- not that there's anything wrong with forward- here's an idea: hide your cell phone out of visible sight but leave it on ring or vibrate , go up to him, ask him if you could borrow his cell phone to call your friend real quick -you left yours at home, then proceed to call your number , let your phone ring and let him realize what just happened , be flirty and tell him he should call/text you sometime, send him a playful text later if he hasn't already texted you, which he probably will
i was reading through the comments as I was typing this and I like that Ana girls idea better, but I don't feel like deleting this ...sooo here's plan B if he doesn't take the hint!