people are biologically more attracted to people that they think are attracted to them, that whole play hard to get he wants what he can't have act works to; it inspires lust and activates that competitive desire , but almost every time both parties end up playing the same tactic so they end up longing for the other but no one ever acts on it, that stuff is way too james bond for everyday life , if you want this guy enough that you took to the internet to ask for advice then mine would be just go up and talk to them
if you're shy and don't know what to say or just don't have anything to talk to him about because you don't know him and don't want to seem too forward- not that there's anything wrong with forward- here's an idea: hide your cell phone out of visible sight but leave it on ring or vibrate , go up to him, ask him if you could borrow his cell phone to call your friend real quick -you left yours at home, then proceed to call your number , let your phone ring and let him realize what just happened , be flirty and tell him he should call/text you sometime, send him a playful text later if he hasn't already texted you, which he probably will
i was reading through the comments as I was typing this and I like that Ana girls idea better, but I don't feel like deleting this ...sooo here's plan B if he doesn't take the hint!
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geez...
just say hi, smile and wave or something or ask him for help with an exercise, even if he doesn't look at you...
all of these staring and looking away games and pretending not expressing interest is really silly and dishonest. good lord...sounds like yall are playing peek-a-boo on crack.
I got really good advice for you:
1. Let's make it clear, you are pretty girl so don't be shy, GUYS LIKE CONFIDENT GIRLS.
2. You said you met him at the gym, so because you are a girl ask for some help or sth. but make sure that is something idn heavy, we call them our strong side so let him be a men.
3. Smile and compliment.
I guarantee you will have him
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Well, if you pretended you didn't see him... more than once... then he's thinking you're not interested. You have to bump into him or something.
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"I don't want him to think that I'm interested in him."
You suceeded. He now thinks you're not interested in him, so he has completely stopped looking at you.
How did you not see this coming?
Trying to talk to him now, will just indicate to him that you're a tease who wanted the attention, but had no interest in him.You are just a stranger and probably not bad looking. Now go work out and ignore him and do your business. Its a gym not a meat market. If you can.
Otherwise you might introduce yourself and quit being weird - aloof.The next time you you see him:
Walk by him, make eye contact, smile and say hi.
Optional: Turn around after you did the above
:)I know you're shy, but why did you keep looking away?
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