There is no way in hell I would be with a guy who treats me like dirt, regardless of his looks. In all honesty I can't say if I would go for the other guy or not, just because I have never been in a situation where I found a guy who I liked personality wise, entirely unattractive physically. I would like to think I would go for it but I honestly don't know.
Of course looks matter. Looks have always mattered. Being dominant and mean matters.
The problem with your question is it assumes attractiveness is binary. In other words, it assumes someone is either very attractive or very ugly. But attractiveness comes in various levels. Thus a guy like me would prefer to find a girl who's still fairly attractive but still also nice.
And someone who treats you like their world is basically kissing your butt and you can't respect anyone who kisses your butt.
Of course looks matter to an extent, but most people are secure enough that they aren't going to choose a jerk/bitch/abuser just because they are really good-looking. Yes, a few do, but most people understand that at the end of the day, personality is the #1 thing.
I'd be much happier with a girl who was a 4 in looks and a 9 in personality than with a girl who was a 9 in looks and a 5 in personality.
Well if I'm with someone who treats me like crap, then I wouldn't be with someone attractive then. If I'm with someone who doesn't carry themselves well they will be a million times more beautiful because how much I love them. Someone who is mean to me can't be hot anymore, I'll always just feel hate towards them rather than attraction.
Yes, looks matter, but personality is more important in the long run.
Obviously looks matter to a degree
I think they would both suck to have lol. I would want nothing to do with the first one because they would treat me poorly. I wouldn't want to be with the second one because they were unattracrive but at least I could be friends with them because she is nice
Looks do matter in this world, but I'm not the type of person to let someone treat me like dirt, no matter how good they look. If he treats me like I'm his world, and the feeling is mutual, then f*** looks!
Of COURSE looks matter. People take it too far by saying they don't matter. What they mean is that they are not the most important. Looks will not bring happiness, and are only good for immediate attraction. After you get to know someone, their personality makes them attractive.
To me looks don't matter as long as the person makes me happy I'm happy I find personality attractive and makes me want someone. Personality outshines the looks of a person in my point of veiw. People always tell me why do I date guys who don't always look nice or attractive and its because I rather get treated with respect then garbage and be looked down by someone who thinks they are the shet.
Ok so they can't b sexy and not carry themselves well at the same time e_o I've known some pretty sexy idiots but anyway! I get your drift. Yea I would rather date a guy and a wheel chair with a heart full of gold rather than a hottie with a pocket full of gold. That's 4 sure.
How are people still asking this, looks matter anyone why tells you otherwise is and idiot. If you meet a stranger and the person is really attractive you are far more inclined to want to interact with them than if they are ugly. Once you get to know the person that changed but I initially looks are what defines if you interact with the person or not. Basically looks matter first and then everything else comes second. I would notice the very attractive person but when they start o treat me poorly I go find someone else, I wouldn't waste my time with someone I found unattractive despite how well they treated me because (I assume you are talking relationship wise) if you aren't physically attracted to your bf/gift the relationship will fall appart.
Why do you assume that all attractive people treat others like sh*t? There's ugly people who have horrible personalities as well. So this hypothetical question seems rather silly to me. In this case I'd rather stay single! Neither of those is something I'd settle for.
Looks DO matter, but that does not mean I will put up with sh*t from anyone regardless of how attractive they are. There's plenty of attractive good people, I can find something better.