i was with my friend at the mall earlier today. I saw my boyfriend cross dressing, a really bad wig gave it away. he told me he couldn't help me with my homework because he was called in to work.
he was in a Nine West store trying shoes on. He had on some makeup, nice Capri jeans, belt, and a tank top. With the warm weather here in Honolulu, I notice that he even shaved his armpits, and his legs.
my friend and I were surprised. I don't know what to say when he calls me. is my boyfriend gay, or what? I don't know if I should continue to love him, support him, or what?
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Well just to make sure you know, a crossdressing guy is not necessarily gay. Those are two different things even though logically they may seem similar. You don't know the full story either, it might have been a bet he lost, but even if he likes doing that kind of stuff, that doesn't mean he's gay. I think you should meet him in person and just gently bring the subject up. Obviously you can't go on normally like before until you get this out in the open, so don't pretend everything is alright and talk to him about it, but again, be gentle about it.0