I recently noticed on the history of my boyfriends computer that he is on sites looking at dirty photos. Mainly sexy butt shots and positions. We have been together 6 months and have a pretty good relationship. To many, this is natural for men to do.(he is 42 by the way), but I can't help feeling hurt by this. I hope this doesn't mean he is dissatisfied with me. I'm 40, so I'm no spring chicken, but I do look pretty good. Not to sound full of myself, but I try to keep myself up. This just concerns me. I haven't brought this to his attention and I don't know if I should.
looking at p*rn at least for me is normal every day stuff for me. I rarely have a Girlfriend but I immigne I get horny way more than normal and don't expect her to have sex with me just because I want it so I'll continue to use p*rn to relieve myself. I would hope any long term relationship I get in would have a healthy sexual aspect if that's the case than I would look at p*rn less and less assuming I'm getting enough sex but like I said I expect that I'm more horny than the average person.
I think looking at p*rn is pretty normal and doesn't necessarily mean he's dissatisfied with anything. However, it's a normal and legitimate thing to be concerned about and bringing it up to him isn't a bad idea. You can do so in a non-accusatory way and just let him know that he's not necessarily doing anything wrong, but it makes you feel like he isn't satisfied with you which is hurtful.