Guys, are you ever guilty of this? To be specific, you would stare/keep on looking at a girl/guy (maybe intently) you like from afar/ there's a significant amount of distance between you two. Nonetheless, when you're within close proximity of her, you just CANNOT seem to look into her eyes/at her. You might even be focusing so hard on something else that's near her til the point that it's just weird. Ring any bells? ha ha body lingo's s such a quirky thing.. Do you do it because you like that person/ out of intimidation/ nervousness?
That happens to guys all the time. Not sure why, but some turn into shy little school boys when they're finally in front of their target; others just plaster a grin and stand stoically till the girl is thoroughly confused about his intentions. Most of the time it's just nerves. To know his true mind, try to see if he steals sidelong glances at you or stares when he thinks you can't see him.
UP close, of course it's natural to be a little nervous. For one thing, it's not very polite to stare when you're right next to someone, and she's likely to tell us that to our face, which is embarrassing,affter all.
That's not an issue from far away, where we can pretty much check her out all we want. While she might notice that, she's not likely to come over to us to object to it!
Used to do that when I was single and saw a girl I liked.. Was just very shy and thought that I might not be good enough for her or since I have a slight speech impediment that some people pick up and immediatly think that I'm either drunk off my ass or foreign
not really, when a girl gets closer to me I look to see if we share eye contact. usually sometimes we don't (the girl just avoids my eyes) and if we do I usually grin at her then see how long it takes for us to break eye contact. I don't care if she finds me creepy or whatever.
I don't really stare at girls I like though, since for some reason it feels like as soon as I keep my eyes on someone for more than a second, they'll turn around and notice me looking, even if they can't see me. It's strange.
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