Hey so...me and my boyfriend have been together for over 2 years ...and I've kinda always wanted him to look away when there are naked or half naked girls or girls wearing really obvious low tops on TV and in general... He keeps on telling me that I'm being unreasonable, and that I'm abnormal? But I...don't feel irrational? I feel like its normal to ask him to look away, especially because I've have this disgusting skin condition all my life and its made me more and more insecure everyday...and because he's openly said he likes big boobs more when I clearly have the smallest **** ever -.-. I know other girls who genuinely have a problem with her boyfriends not looking away from half naked girls or whatever ...but they don't even have skin problems? and they're like size frikin D/E's. I feel like I'm not actually being that irrational or 'weird', I feel like him looking away is just respectful and normal... am I right or wrong?
and try not to unnecessarily insult me, already hear enough from my boyfriend thanks (y)
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You're insecure about certain physical traits and that is OK. But insecurities can ruin relationships and this is something that you should grow to be OK with.
He loves you. He is with you. Girls outnumber guys 6:4 so what do plan on having him close his eyes for the majority of the rest of your life? Try to overcome this insecurity...
that said it disturbs me that you would say "try not to unnecessarily insult me, already hear enough from my boyfriend"...
You should not accept insults as a part of a relationship. And you need to let him know his insults hurt and only fuel the insecurities you already have about yourself