Tell me if it matters, how to deal, or just any words of wisdom when it comes to this situation:
I just meet a guy then we exchange info and we add each other on Facebook/twitter but when I go back in their history just to get a better feel for who they are or just pictures and whatever I come across them gushing over a girl or two in particular.
It's happening now I just met this guy and he was staring at me hard and I made a move and then I look in his recent history and he's saying oh I miss you @whomever, you're so awesome, if I could favorite everything you say I would, and so on & so on. The guy like most of their comments and replies and when I look at that I get all discouraged. It throws me off. I'm detached from all the guys in my past & even if we're (close) friends I don't do shout outs & mentions pr anything. It makes me think they have deep feelings with some girl and it almost feels like I'm competing. I really look forward to getting to know a guy then I see he's broadcasting his fondness over a girl from his past.
Is this weird for me to feel?
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I guess you're better off with other guys. These type of guys who still clings to their old infatuations while at the same time displaying a very endearing of fondness on a new girl, are usually the jerks who always complicate relationships and are often exposed to unfaithfulness.
There are so many guys out there whom you may choose from that are capable of displaying a genuine care and fondness to a single girl whom they've chose to be a part of their life.
They are someone who will never give you up, never let you down, never gonna run around and desert you.0