My fiance doesn't want me to get a tattoo, what should I do?

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My brother was murdered 2 years ago and since then, I have been planning on getting a memorial tattoo in remembrance of him. I also am a recovering cutter, and want to get some writing near (not over) my scars. I finally have come up with exactly what I want, only to find out that my fiance doesn't want me to get any tattoos. He says they're unattractive. I love tattoos and don't currently have any, because I only want to get a few that will really mean a lot to me. I've tried negotiating with him but he seems to be set on it and just says "but I don't like them, they're really unattractive and meaningless".

Should I get them anyway and hope he will learn to accept them? Or should I just forget it, even though it would mean so much to me and I've been planning on it for so long?

My fiance doesn't want me to get a tattoo, what should I do?
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